A woman’s scream at a jalsa
First of all, I would like to make it clear that I am in no way trying to defame any political party. I am writing this simply to highlight our failure as a society. That being said, I would like to...
View ArticleI am a girl and I love going to the mandi
It is considered a universal fact that a cattle market (mandi) is no place for a woman. “It’s a guy thing”, they say. “What would you do in a mandi?” They ask. “Are you sure you want to spoil that...
View ArticleBreast cancer: Pakistan’s most common cancer
It was the summer of 1999, when a bunch of us, final year medical students, were attending to patients in the crowded outpatient department at the Mayo Hospital in Lahore. Our professor had called us...
View ArticleDear Iran, self-defense is not murder
The world celebrates and praises Malala Yousafzai – a Pakistani girl whose claim to fame was a bullet to her head, her fault being her desire to seek education – and while the world talks of empowering...
View ArticleBravo, Jennifer Garner!
Jennifer Garner just did something wonderful, not just for herself, but for women globally. She accepted and celebrated her ‘baby bump’ and made the lives of her millions of followers easy. In an...
View ArticleWill #HeForShe work for me, a man?
The recent HeForShe campaign by Emma Watson, the UN Women goodwill ambassador, has gained significant repertoire, with many men posting pictures on Twitter and Facebook with placards, articulating...
View ArticleThe spectacular, Oscar de la Renta
Gentlemen, gallant, extraordinary. These are the words which come to mind when Oscar de la Renta is mentioned. A man so great, he could make ordinary women feel extraordinary in his creations. With an...
View ArticleLiving with polio in Pakistan
“I always wanted to study but my dream to get higher education remained just that, a dream. I was unable to complete my Matric because of my disability. It would pain me immensely to see girls who were...
View ArticleWhy does marriage equal compromise in Pakistan?
I’m a 24-year-old woman and I am divorced. Yes, you heard right; I’m a 24-year-old divorced woman in a Pakistani society. I got divorced because my husband was suffering from depression, was taking...
View ArticleOnly in Pakistan can women become ‘white’ and men restore their ‘manhood’...
It is unfortunate that even in today’s day and age we have issues concerning gender identity. In fact, they have become more complex than ever and people are seen spewing offensive slurs at those whom...
View ArticleReyhaneh Jabbari lives on – even today
“The world allowed me to live for 19 years. That ominous night it was I that should have been killed. My body would have been thrown in some corner of the city, and after a few days, the police would...
View ArticleForced conversions in Pakistan: “Eeshwar kaun hai, Allah bol Allah!”
Scuffles and screams rang through the dark night. They were three and they were burly. They had her in a firm grip with her mouth gagged with a rough cloth. It was probably 11 or 12 o’clock at night....
View ArticleReal men do(n’t) cry
He was sharing some of his deepest secrets about his childhood; his fears, his regrets, his loss – of a loved one, of dreams, of time lost that could have been utilised better, of a life that could...
View ArticleThe Why Chromosome
When speaking to a friend of mine on how to treat a lady, I was fairly shocked to find that he hadn’t a clue, really. There seems to be confusion – a dearth of clear ground rules. When it comes to...
View ArticleDoes Pakistan’s media encourage sexism?
The recent controversy surrounding Junaid Jamshed has dominated social media over the weekend. The matter is between him and God; I am in no position to comment on the apology or the blasphemy issue at...
View ArticleSaudi Arabia: Holy hypocrites
I was born in Saudi Arabia and am very closely accustomed to the grossly odd laws that exist within the nation, namely, and perhaps most famously, that women are not allowed to drive, that women have...
View ArticleMisplaced priorities: Why do you lose your mind when it comes to Imran Khan?
As a journalist I have always been impartial towards political parties; experience shows that while all of them promise the world, none of them deliver. Lately, however, the dynamic of politics in...
View ArticleDo we need a ‘females-only’ mosque?
January 30, 2015, was a defining day for Muslim women in the United States. Close to 150 women gathered at the Interfaith Pico-Union Project, in Los Angeles, at a mosque to offer their Friday prayers....
View ArticleI thought he was a beggar-child…
I was deep in my thoughts, standing at the railway station, when a slight tug on my shirt startled me. Averting my gaze towards the source of the tug, I saw a child. A sense of pity washed over; I took...
View ArticleGenetically ‘male’ woman gives birth to twins. Great, but did she have to?
A few days back, I read about a medical miracle that occurred in the Indian city of Meerut. I understand that a ‘genetically male’ woman has given birth to twins. A 32-year-old ‘woman’ had a rare...
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